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Monday, 29 December 2014

TOP 10 POSTS ABOUT BLOGGING OF 2014


Not all of us are well versed in the world of blogging and I am still learning about it all. Blogging advice posts are one ingenious way of getting quick tips for upping your blogging game. So I thought I'd share my top 10 blogging advice posts I've read from this year.













If you have any more tips or links to blogging advice hit the comments below.


LOVE VANESSA xx


Saturday, 20 December 2014

THE FASHION POST | CHRISTMAS & NEW YEARS PARTY OUTFIT IDEAS


It's that time of year again... Christmas & New Year is filled with family gatherings, work parties and going out on the town. When it comes to figuring out what to wear to these events it can be incredibly challenging. Here are just a few outfits to inspire.

Very have some great outfit ideas in their A/W '14 lookbook to help you along the way and they can all be ordered straight from their site it couldn't be easier.



For those tomboys out there you can't go wrong with a fitted suit.





Metallics are perfect for New Years Parties.





Go edgy with a faux leather dress.




Or for a more family appropriate outfit maybe this will give you some inspiration.









All images rights go to Very, no copyright infringement intended.

This post was written as part of the #VeryBloggers competition run by the awesome folk over at Very.co.uk. Do check out their amazing site.


LOVE VANESSA xx

Thursday, 18 December 2014

QUOTES FOR MOTIVATION

We all love a good quote and I love motivational ones especially so here are a few.









“It's not because it's difficult that we don't try. 
It's because we don't try, it's difficult.” 
― Volksweisheitheit




Let me know in the comments your favourite motivational quotes.

LOVE VANESSA xx

UPDATE | IT'S BEEN A WHILE AGAIN...

It's been almost 6 months since I last wrote a post on here and during that time so much has happened. In August I had a marketing internship in one of the biggest publishing houses in the UK Random House. I then finished my MA in Publishing at the end of September. It's been a busy last few months of 2014 and I was just so unmotivated to blog. Which has happened before and I promised it wouldn't happen again but alas it has. 

I really lost interest in reading blogs which in turn meant I lost interest in writing on mine. 
I don't have that many followers compared to other bloggers out there and that doesn't bother me so much. I think when someone decides they're going to blog they enter the blogging world with so many hopes and more often than not it doesn't live up to your expectations. I've learned that while you may not gain a huge following overnight it takes a lot of hard work and tenacity to blog on a regular basis. I take my hat off to those of you who manage to do so. 

But anyway I'm rambling. I wanted this blog to be a place that I love and can write about whatever I want on it but it started to feel like a chore. That's not what blogging should be like. So I went on hiatus and concentrated on other things. But slowly I am coming back to blogging. I've been mostly active on bloglovin liking posts etc even if I haven't actually been blogging myself.

So here I am not making promises and blogging with no expectations. :)


LOVE VANESSA xx


Wednesday, 23 July 2014

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!!!



As the title says it's my birthday today and I turned 23 years old. And how do I commemorate it with a birthday selfie ha ha. ;) Whenever it's my birthday I always take the time to reflect on what I've achieved the past year. I actually had my undergraduate graduation on this day last year which was the strangest way to spend a birthday ha ha.There are so many amazing things that have happened in the last year and I feel that the next few months will be huge for me. I have made so many new life long friends, got to live in Oxford for a year and I will have finished my Masters degree which is something I'm really excited about. It means that I can work on my blog a lot more which I'm looking forward to as well. So here's to another year...



Sunday, 6 July 2014

THE OPINION POST | FAN ELITISM




I tweeted about fan elitism a couple of days ago after I read a comment on an article about Paramore and was inspired by Zoe's post she wrote today about music snobbery which you can find here. Her post got me really thinking and I came to the realization that snobbery and elitism isn't just limited to fans of music but of other things such as TV shows, comic books, actors/actresses, youtubers and even gaming. 
I'm part of a lot of fandoms and fanbases and have been for some time namely Marvel, Echelon & Star Wars as a couple of examples. All of these and even ones I'm not part of such as One Direction all have some form of elitism it seems. Either you need to have liked it for several years, or need to know everything about it etc for you to be classed as a true fan which to me is BS. Also it's come to the point where people bully or even send death threats simply because you don't like the music they like.

I've experienced it myself and it's not fun believe me, also you find yourself often having to prove you're a 'real' fan when simply liking something in my eyes makes you a fan. You don't need to know everything about it or have liked for them for years. Also for example as a Marvel/Star Wars fan you are continually disregarded as a fan if you just so happen to be female. The first true science-fiction book ever to be written was Frankenstein and that was written by Mary Shelley who is in fact a woman, so women practically invented the genre. The elitism here is redundant; gender doesn't affect your ability to like something.

I admit when I was a teenager it felt a bit like I had to prove myself a fan of certain things and often got mocked for things I liked; especially music I liked. I remember I always got mocked for liking the Killers at secondary school by boys who were my friends; admittedly I'm not so big a fan of them now. Now I'm in my 20's I don't care as much about people not liking things I do or if I don't like what they like to me it doesn't really matter.

But anyway I'm rambling now which always seems to happen ha ha.

For me I think there are several mottos to live by as a fan of something:

1. Like whatever you want to like.
2. Ignore those who mock you for liking it, who really cares if you're enjoying yourself.
3. You don't need to know everything about it.
4. Remember you'll find so many people who will appreciate you for joining their fandom/fanbase.
5. And finally just enjoy it regardless.

What do you think about fan elitism? Have you experienced it?


LOVE VANESSA xx


QUOTE OF THE WEEK



Love this quote from Kurt Vonnegut's Timequake which you can get here.
I've decided I'm going to have various different quotes for this segment on the blog, some literary some not.
You can see quotes I have reblogged on my tumblr too here.


LOVE VANESSA xx
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